Beta Males Create Hypergamy
You manifest your own reality.
I know what you’re thinking: nothing but the words of a self-help guru, some manipulative Eastern Mystic, selling bulk-bin books to the Housefrau at Walmart. Quite frankly, I’m not a huge fan of that positive-thinking garbage, myself; I far prefer suffering. As Jordan Petersen said in the video I linked yesterday, suffering is how you know you’re alive.
Happiness? Happiness is the heroin drip, the video game addiction, the desire for Thanatos and self-elimination. Happiness is Utopia, and Utopia’s nothing but the process of killing off everybody, one by one, until you’re the last man left alive – and then, finally, killing yourself, too: there you go, no more suffering!
Thanks, but I’ll pass.
“Manifesting your destiny” is almost always a pack of feel-good lies, a self-imposed delusion sold by a charlatan, to help you pretend that you aren’t suffering. A slow form of suicide where you eliminate the self. This is granted.
But a million fools saying something doesn’t make it untrue.
Deep Wisdom is the sort of thing that can’t be explained; it can only be understood. It exists on the plane of Absolute Truth and explanations are forever relegated to the level of Objective Truth. You can’t use science to prove Deep Wisdom, any more than you can use math to prove that math itself is valid. All you can do is create a tautology – and this is where most of the Self-Help Books wind up.
Given that I find tautologies profoundly annoying, it’s probably best to drop the whole concept of Deep Wisdom. Let’s instead focus on some non-obvious observations about the objective world. In this case, the title of this essay: namely, that it’s sycophantic Beta Males who are ultimately responsible for the hypergamous women who spurn their advances, and chase after the bad boys. After all, you do remember Spengler’s 11th Universal Law, don’t you?
At all times and in all places, the men and women of every culture deserve each other.
The Manosphere is largely written by the sort of Men who seek self-improvement; as a consequence, they are far more successful with women than your average guy. A small but significant minority exists, however, which is mainly interested in tearing these Men down. Their arguments come in various forms:
- Game doesn’t work (or it only works on X type of girls),
- You’re a narcissist and/or liar,
- Sleeping with women is immoral/you don’t understand virtue,
…but regardless of the form it takes, the seething jealousy is evident. There’s one unstated premise underlying all of it: “You’re hogging all of the girls for yourself!”
The reality of our situation is that Western women are choosing to sleep around. As Dalrock has pointed out, Churchian shaming of males isn’t going to change any of this. For one thing, most of the men these women are sleeping with don’t go to Church – and for another, even if they do go to church, even if they do stop sleeping with women, it only takes a handful of Players to de-maidenhead your entire flock.
For social shaming to work on Men, it would have to have 100% coverage; the proper target, he argues, is the women.
I think he’s slightly off the mark here.
While it would certainly be nice to have Churches acting Christian again, this would only slow the process, it wouldn’t stop it. If there’s one thing the Manosphere knows about women, it’s how sneaky and determined they can be when they yearn for your bed. “Five minutes of Alpha is better than five years of Beta,” as Heartiste says. The Churchians enable it, but they don’t cause it.
So what does? Well, it’s not the Men who are practising Game.
Game largely boils down to following the “Reality Principle.” Recognizing women for what they are, being able to recognize the women who are looking for casual sex, and knowing how to present yourself as the sort of masculine Man whom they’re looking for. In other words, women are still the gatekeepers of sex – they’ve simply thrown the gates wide open.
Women don’t get seduced, they allow themselves to be seduced. If you don’t sleep with her, somebody else will.
The question we should be asking is why are they so eager to ride the carousel? Feminist propaganda, affirmative action, and Churchian excuses will only get you so far. They enable, they don’t cause. If women didn’t want casual sex, they wouldn’t be having casual sex. Their instincts didn’t suddenly change over the past 200 years! There must be a prime-motivator behind it all.
And there is: Beta Male Orbiters.
Women cannot be happy without male attention. Look no further than a Girls’ Night Out for evidence of this. While men are more than happy to share a beer, talk shop, and ignore the womenfolk, you will never see a group of women who aren’t pining and preening for male attention. The Bechdel Test made manifest, once again.
The Beta Males are the ones who feed into this. They suck up to them on Pinterest and Facebook. They take them out on dates, buy them dinner, and listen to them prattle. They go out and White Knight for any woman that’s behaving badly. They offer ceaseless, saccharine love and attention – and they never demand anything in return.
Thanks to them, women have had more than their dietary allotment of sweet stuff.
So when a woman goes out on the town, she isn’t looking for another orbiter; she’s already suckled off of the Betas, now she’s looking for 175° proof Alpha. Game is all about understanding this. The sort of Man who’s studied Game is the sort of Man who’s capable of both – he can be loving and protective, as well as virile and dominant – but thanks to the Betas, she only wants the latter.
If he feels like it, he’ll sleep with her; if he doesn’t, he’ll leave her to the Dark Triad sociopaths. Either way, she’s sleeping with somebody, and it won’t be the Betas.
As for the Chaste girls? Yeah, there’s a handful of them out there – but they’re hiding. They don’t want to ride the carousel, but they don’t want the orbiter, either. These are the girls who want the whole-deal in one man.
And the Betas can’t provide it.
So here’s the grand irony of it all: the Betas seethe with jealousy and fake-moralizations when they see the Alphas, but it wasn’t Alphas who made this world the way it is: it was the Betas. Yes, Cain, it isn’t God who’s bringing you wilted crops, it your own sins, your own lack of Virtue which makes you so miserable. Learn to hunt like your brother Abel, you miserable Grass Eater – the Hell you live in is of your own making.
You want to change the world? Then remember the ancient proverb:
Physician heal thyself!